Hello, I am Priest Nduga, a traditional African spiritual healer and spell caster.
Over the years, many people have come to me with questions like:
- “Why is my partner so obsessed with me?”
- “I can’t stop thinking about them. Is this real love or something else?”
- “I want them to love me, not control me.”
- “I feel trapped in love, and it’s suffocating.”
These are not just emotional issues they are spiritual conditions, and they need spiritual solutions.
Today, I want to speak to those who feel stuck in unhealthy, obsessive love and offer spells that work not to harm, not to control, but to restore balance, protect your energy, and create peace in your heart.
Let’s talk about the deeper meaning behind obsession… and the spells that can help you shift the energy.
What Causes Obsessive Love Spiritually?
Obsession may seem like passion on the surface but spiritually, it often means:
- One partner is too attached or trying to dominate the other
- There’s karmic entanglement or unresolved past-life ties
- A psychic cord or energy bond was created during intimacy
- Someone may have done a binding or obsession spell already
- One or both partners feel energetically dependent on each other
Over time, this can create:
- Control, jealousy, or emotional manipulation
- Anxiety, fear of abandonment, or clinginess
- Constant checking, calling, or accusing
- Feeling emotionally trapped instead of loved
Love is not meant to feel like prison. And obsession is not true connection. It’s a spiritual imbalance and it can be corrected.
The Truth About Obsession Spells (And Why Balance Matters)
Yes there are spells that intensify desire, create obsession, or bind someone’s mind to you.
But let me be clear:
I do not recommend these unless you fully understand the consequences.
Because obsession spells that are cast out of desperation or control often:
- Backfire emotionally
- Create toxic patterns
- Prevent true love from flowing freely
Instead, I recommend using balancing love spells that:
- Cool down obsessive energy
- Clear spiritual cords or attachments
- Restore mutual love and respect
- Help you or your partner regain emotional independence
Let me now guide you through 3 powerful spells I use to restore harmony in obsessive relationships.
1. Obsession Clearing Spell (Cut Spiritual Cords)
This spell is for you if you feel someone is spiritually clinging to you, watching your every move, or draining your energy.
What You’ll Need:
- A black candle
- A piece of white string or thread
- Two small pieces of paper: one with your name, one with theirs
- Scissors
- Bowl of saltwater
Ritual Steps:
- Light the black candle to represent protection and release.
- Tie the white string between the two papers. This symbolizes the energetic cord.
- Say: “This tie has become too heavy. I now cut what no longer serves love.”
- Cut the string with scissors. Drop both papers into the saltwater.
- Let the candle burn out safely. Bury the string or flush the saltwater after.
This ritual gently releases obsession and resets the connection to be more peaceful.
2. Rose Quartz Soothing Spell (Calm Obsessive Energy)
This spell works when you are the one feeling obsessed, overly attached, or heartbroken from unreturned love.
What You’ll Need:
- A rose quartz crystal (for heart healing)
- Pink candle
- Chamomile or lavender incense
- Quiet space
Ritual Steps:
- Light the candle and incense.
- Hold the rose quartz to your heart. Breathe in peace.
- Say softly: “I release the grip of obsession.
I no longer beg for love I attract it with ease.
I am enough. I am free. I am whole.” - Meditate for 5–10 minutes, feeling love flow back into your own heart.
Do this nightly for 7 days. This spell helps calm your mind, rebuild self-love, and loosen obsession.
3. Balancing Love Binding Spell (Mutual Devotion, Not Control)
If your partner is the one obsessing, but you still love them and want to stay together this spell helps rebalance the energy and create mutual, healthy love.
You’ll Need:
- Red and white candles
- A small red ribbon
- A photo of both of you together
- Honey (to sweeten energy)
Ritual Steps:
- Light the two candles. Place the photo between them.
- Tie the red ribbon gently around the photo.
- Anoint the ribbon with a drop of honey and say: “Let our love be balanced. Not too much, not too little.
Let obsession fade and harmony rise.
Let us love with peace, not fear.” - Keep the photo and ribbon near your altar or relationship space.
This spell keeps the bond strong but gentle and respectful.
Final Thoughts: Obsession Is a Sign Not a Life Sentence
If you’re reading this and nodding your head, feeling the pain of obsessive love know this:
You don’t need to stay stuck.
You don’t need to let someone control you.
And you don’t need to suffer in silence.
Spiritual work can cut cords, restore peace, and call back your personal power.
Love should feel like connection, not control.
Need Stronger Help? Let Me Cast a Protection or Release Ritual For You
As Priest Nduga, I specialize in both breaking obsession spells and healing love attachments. If you feel your relationship has been spiritually hijacked, I can help.
📞 Call or WhatsApp Priest Nduga: +256776265228
📧 Email: priestnduga@gmail.com
A Final Blessing for Your Heart
May the chains of obsession fall away.
May your love be soft, safe, and free.
May your partner love you with respect, not control.
And may your soul feel at peace again.
If you are ready to take your power back reach out. I will guide you.
With strength and protection,
Priest Nduga
