When You’re Spiritually Drained By Someone. There comes a time when holding on does more harm than letting go. If you’re reading this, it may be because someone in your life is bringing pain, stress, or confusion to your heart. Perhaps it’s a toxic ex who won’t leave you in peace, a manipulative family member, or a friend whose energy keeps pulling you down. I want you to know you are not alone, and you are not helpless.
In African traditional spirituality, we believe that not every ending must come through chaos. Some departures are sacred. Some separations are necessary for the soul to heal, grow, and be free. When done spiritually and with the right intention, you can release someone peacefully and protect your spirit from further harm.
Today, I will guide you through a powerful yet gentle way to remove someone from your life without creating negative karma or emotional backlash.
Why You May Need A Spell To Remove Someone
Here are a few signs that you may benefit from a spiritual separation:
- Emotional Toxicity: You feel constantly manipulated, judged, or drained in this person’s presence.
- Energy Attachment: You dream about them, think of them obsessively, or feel their energy even when they’re gone.
- Spiritual Disruption: Your peace, relationships, or spiritual growth has been blocked since they entered your life.
These are not ordinary issues. They point to a spiritual imbalance that needs healing. When conversations and boundaries don’t work, spiritual action becomes necessary.
Spiritual Methods of Releasing Someone
Before I share the main ritual, let me explain a few ways we work spiritually to remove someone peacefully:
1. Cord-Cutting Rituals
These are used when you’re emotionally tied to someone even if they’re no longer physically present. Cord-cutting helps to remove unhealthy emotional and spiritual bonds.
2. Banishing Spells
This is for those who actively bring harm or negativity into your life. These rituals send the person away spiritually and emotionally, without harming them, so you can reclaim your peace.
3. Protection & Distance Spells
These are softer rituals that spiritually block someone from interfering in your life. Useful when you don’t want harm, just space and safety.
Every ritual I offer follows spiritual law and is rooted in healing. We don’t force or hurt. We restore order and peace.
Main Ritual: Peaceful Banishing Spell
This ritual is for those who want to be free from someone but also want to honor spiritual integrity. It works gently but firmly to remove someone from your life, mind, and energy.
Ingredients:
- 1 black candle (for protection and banishing)
- 1 lemon (to cut ties and sour the connection)
- A pinch of sea salt (cleansing and grounding)
- A piece of paper with the person’s name/photo
- A fireproof bowl or plate
- Florida water or African herbal wash (optional but recommended)
Preparation:
- Clean your space. Sweep the floor or light incense to remove stagnant energy.
- Take a few deep breaths. Ground your spirit and set your intention clearly: “I release [Name] from my life. I choose peace. I welcome healing.”
Ritual Steps:
- Light the black candle. Say, “I call on the spirits of peace, protection, and guidance. Let this work be clean, balanced, and blessed.”
- Take the paper with the person’s name or image. Fold it away from you three times. Each time, say: “You are no longer part of my path. I let you go.”
- Slice the lemon in half. Rub the cut side on the paper, letting the juice touch the name. Sprinkle a bit of salt.
- Place the paper in the fireproof bowl. Say: “As this burns, so does the bond between us. May you go your way, and I go mine in peace.”
- Burn the paper safely. Let it turn to ash. Once cooled, bury the ashes outside your home or throw them in running water.
Best Timing:
- Perform during a waning moon (when the moon is shrinking) for best effect.
- Nighttime is ideal for quiet, protective spiritual work.
Aftercare & Spiritual Advice
Spiritual work doesn’t end when the candle goes out. After you’ve performed this ritual:
1. Cleanse Yourself: Take a spiritual bath with herbs like basil, eucalyptus, or hyssop. Wash away lingering energies.
2. Protect Your Spirit: Light white candles. Wear protective charms. Surround yourself with good music, clean food, and loving company.
3. Don’t Reopen Doors: Avoid calling, texting, or stalking the person online. Spiritually, this rebinds the cord you just cut. Let silence speak.
4. Journal or Pray: Talk to your ancestors. Thank them for guiding your path and keeping your spirit strong.
A Final Word From Me, Priest Nduga
You deserve peace. You deserve rest. You deserve a life free from toxic attachments and energy drains. If someone is standing in the way of your joy, it’s not selfish to walk away it’s sacred.
Let this ritual be your turning point. If you feel overwhelmed or unsure, I am here to guide you. You can reach out to me for private spiritual help. Sometimes, what you’re facing is deeper than it seems and you shouldn’t carry it alone.
“Where peace begins, blessings flow.” Stay protected,
Priest Nduga Uganda’s Trusted Spiritual Healer & Root Doctor +256776265228 | priestnduga@gmail.com
